Sunday, March 4, 2018
Saturday, February 24, 2018
Tuesday, February 20, 2018
Our deepest fear
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine, as children do.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
Marianne Williamson
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine, as children do.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
Marianne Williamson
Sunday, February 18, 2018
Tuesday, February 13, 2018
Monday, February 12, 2018
Wednesday, February 7, 2018
Monday, February 5, 2018
Saturday, February 3, 2018
Friday, February 2, 2018
Tuesday, January 30, 2018
Astargfirullah!!!!!!!
https://www.thestar.com.my/news/regional/2007/05/25/three-wives-of-rapist-dad-jailed/
In March 2004, he had convinced his wives and daughters to accept his interpretation of the Quran: That a father had absolute ownership over his children, which extended to sexual relations with his daughters.
Read more at https://www.thestar.com.my/news/regional/2007/05/25/three-wives-of-rapist-dad-jailed/#h9b7UuPz2CoPmY6Y.99
In March 2004, he had convinced his wives and daughters to accept his interpretation of the Quran: That a father had absolute ownership over his children, which extended to sexual relations with his daughters.
Read more at https://www.thestar.com.my/news/regional/2007/05/25/three-wives-of-rapist-dad-jailed/#h9b7UuPz2CoPmY6Y.99
Elsagate, Paw Patrol and dot dot dot
1.https://www.forbes.com/sites/danidiplacido/2017/11/28/youtubes-elsagate-illuminates-the-unintended-horrors-of-the-digital-age/#2eb723866ba7
2.https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/something-really-is-wrong-on-the-internet-time-to-fix-it/2017/11/13/4317a252-c89a-11e7-b0cf-7689a9f2d84e_story.html?utm_term=.59d96ad04b32
3. https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/04/business/media/youtube-kids-paw-patrol.html
One video on YouTube Kids from the account Subin TV shows the “PAW Patrol” characters in a strip club. One of them then visits a doctor and asks for her cartoon legs to be replaced with long, provocative human legs in stilettos. The account’s description says, “Video created with the purpose of learning and development of children!”
2.https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/something-really-is-wrong-on-the-internet-time-to-fix-it/2017/11/13/4317a252-c89a-11e7-b0cf-7689a9f2d84e_story.html?utm_term=.59d96ad04b32
3. https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/04/business/media/youtube-kids-paw-patrol.html
One video on YouTube Kids from the account Subin TV shows the “PAW Patrol” characters in a strip club. One of them then visits a doctor and asks for her cartoon legs to be replaced with long, provocative human legs in stilettos. The account’s description says, “Video created with the purpose of learning and development of children!”
Sunday, January 28, 2018
Taken from a lecture: The Wild West (One Path Network)
1. 1517 - Martin Luther thrown out from the Roman Catholic Church for two reasons:
1.a) He did not accept that the Pope cannot make mistakes
1.b) He objected "indulgences"
2. Crossroads: 20 years later - the year is 1536, William Tyndale is executed for translating the bible into English.
3. 100 years forward: 1642 - Galileo: Dies under house arrest after saying the sun is the center of universe. (The church said the earth is the center). Thus this is the beginning of the Enlightenment.
4. Another 100 years forward: Denise Diderot - French Philosopher. "Man will never be free until the last king is strangled by the entrails of the last priest"
5. Another 100 years: Karl Marx: 1848 - "Religion is the 'Sigh' of the suffering, and it is the opium of the people" (Religion is "Nonsense" - thus the Rise of Atheism).
6. Emotional Reaction: Throw OUT Religion. Human beings becomes no more than just an intelligent animal.
7. What does it have to do with Islam? - NOTHING AT ALL
8. Why?
8.a Islam promotes Knowledge
8.b Islam promotes Research
8.c Islam promotes intellectuality
8.d Islam promotes critical thinking
8.e Islam promotes the sciences
9. Islam starts with "iqra'" (the first revealed word, meaning: READ)
My notes ends at 5.29, please watch the rest of the video, thank you.
1.a) He did not accept that the Pope cannot make mistakes
1.b) He objected "indulgences"
2. Crossroads: 20 years later - the year is 1536, William Tyndale is executed for translating the bible into English.
3. 100 years forward: 1642 - Galileo: Dies under house arrest after saying the sun is the center of universe. (The church said the earth is the center). Thus this is the beginning of the Enlightenment.
4. Another 100 years forward: Denise Diderot - French Philosopher. "Man will never be free until the last king is strangled by the entrails of the last priest"
5. Another 100 years: Karl Marx: 1848 - "Religion is the 'Sigh' of the suffering, and it is the opium of the people" (Religion is "Nonsense" - thus the Rise of Atheism).
6. Emotional Reaction: Throw OUT Religion. Human beings becomes no more than just an intelligent animal.
7. What does it have to do with Islam? - NOTHING AT ALL
8. Why?
8.a Islam promotes Knowledge
8.b Islam promotes Research
8.c Islam promotes intellectuality
8.d Islam promotes critical thinking
8.e Islam promotes the sciences
9. Islam starts with "iqra'" (the first revealed word, meaning: READ)
My notes ends at 5.29, please watch the rest of the video, thank you.
Wednesday, January 24, 2018
Link to Mr Tristam's talk to download
https://www.ted.com/talks/tristram_stuart_the_global_food_waste_scandal
Repost from WhatsApp. Tadabbur Surah Al Qasas
📚Tadabbur juz 20 Surah al-Qasas
👵🏼Para ibu perlu menjiwai hati ibu nabi Musa a.s.
😭makin tua ni selalu sangat tersentuh hati ibu ini bila baca ayat ini(وَأَصْبَحَ فُؤَادُ أُمِّ مُوسَىٰ فَارِغًا ۖ إِنْ كَادَتْ لَتُبْدِي بِهِ لَوْلَا أَنْ رَبَطْنَا عَلَىٰ قَلْبِهَا لِتَكُونَ مِنَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ)
[Surat Al-Qasas 10]
Dan (sepeninggalan nya) menjadilah hati ibu Musa kosong; sesungguhnya ia nyaris-nyaris menyatakan perihal anaknya itu dengan berterus-terang jika tidaklah Kami kuatkan hatinya (dengan perasaan sabar dan tenang tenteram), supaya tetaplah ia dari orang-orang yang percaya (akan janji Allah).
😭apa yang dimaksudkan dengan hatinya menjadi kosong (fuad farigha)? Mengapa Allah swt tidak menggunakan kalimah "qalbu" tetapi guna kalimah 'fuadu"...
📗Ahli tafsir pun ada pelbagai pendapat.(kena masuk kuliah tafsir)
😭apa yang dimaksudkan dengan hati farigha ini? sukar diungkap dengan kata-kata.
😭Ibu-ibu yang sudah merasainya sahaja yang memahaminya
- ketika anak ketika kecil ditimpa penyakit yang mencemaskan
- ketika berpisah dengan anak pada jarak yang jauh dan masa yang lama
- ketika anak menjauhkan diri daripada ibu kerana merajuk
- ketika anak tidak mahu pulang ke pangkuan ibu sekian lama
- ketika anak ditimpa masalah tetapi ibu tidak ada kudrat membantunya
- ketika anak membelakangkan pandangan atau suruhan ibubapa yang berkaitan kewajipan syara'
- ketika anak berkongsi kesedihan dan kekecewaan dalam hidupnya
- ketika anak ditimpa musibah sehingga mendapat kecacatan anggota
- ketika anak hilang dari pandangan mata tanpa sebarang khabar
- ketika anak yang dipinjamkan oleh ALLAH diambil semula...
(Ya Allah, pada saat menulis ini, hati ibu ini bagai ditusuk sembilu)
🔋Namun, hanya ALLAH swt tempat ibu mengubat jiwanya dengan mengulang-ngulangi ayat sebelumnya sebagai doa yang berterusan untuk mengisi jiwa yang farighah
وَأَوْحَيْنَا إِلَىٰ أُمِّ مُوسَىٰ أَنْ أَرْضِعِيهِ ۖ فَإِذَا خِفْتِ عَلَيْهِ فَأَلْقِيهِ فِي الْيَمِّ وَلَا تَخَافِي وَلَا تَحْزَنِي ۖ إِنَّا رَادُّوهُ إِلَيْكِ وَجَاعِلُوهُ مِنَ الْمُرْسَلِينَ)
[Surat Al-Qasas 7]
😭apa yang dimaksudkan dengan hatinya menjadi kosong (fuad farigha)? Mengapa Allah swt tidak menggunakan kalimah "qalbu" tetapi guna kalimah 'fuadu"...📗Ahli tafsir pun ada pelbagai pendapat.(kena masuk kuliah tafsir)😭apa yang dimaksudkan dengan hati farigha ini? sukar diungkap dengan kata-kata.😭Ibu-ibu yang sudah merasainya sahaja yang memahaminya- ketika anak ketika kecil ditimpa penyakit yang mencemaskan
- ketika berpisah dengan anak pada jarak yang jauh dan masa yang lama
- ketika anak menjauhkan diri daripada ibu kerana merajuk
- ketika anak tidak mahu pulang ke pangkuan ibu sekian lama
- ketika anak ditimpa masalah tetapi ibu tidak ada kudrat membantunya
- ketika anak membelakangkan pandangan atau suruhan ibubapa yang berkaitan kewajipan syara'
- ketika anak berkongsi kesedihan dan kekecewaan dalam hidupnya
- ketika anak ditimpa musibah sehingga mendapat kecacatan anggota
- ketika anak hilang dari pandangan mata tanpa sebarang khabar
- ketika anak yang dipinjamkan oleh ALLAH diambil semula...
(Ya Allah, pada saat menulis ini, hati ibu ini bagai ditusuk sembilu)
🔋Namun, hanya ALLAH swt tempat ibu mengubat jiwanya dengan mengulang-ngulangi ayat sebelumnya sebagai doa yang berterusan untuk mengisi jiwa yang farighahوَأَوْحَيْنَا إِلَىٰ أُمِّ مُوسَىٰ أَنْ أَرْضِعِيهِ ۖ فَإِذَا خِفْتِ عَلَيْهِ فَأَلْقِيهِ فِي الْيَمِّ وَلَا تَخَافِي وَلَا تَحْزَنِي ۖ إِنَّا رَادُّوهُ إِلَيْكِ وَجَاعِلُوهُ مِنَ الْمُرْسَلِينَ)
[Surat Al-Qasas 7]
🖌Ibu-ibu yang lain boleh berkongsi rasa di sini
💎
📌Salam jumu'ah mubarakah, Dr UsWah, Kampus ibu kandung suluh budiman, Tanjong Mu'allim, 21 R.Akhir 1438/20 Jan 2017Tuesday, January 23, 2018
Food Waste
https://www.ted.com/talks/tristram_stuart_the_global_food_waste_scandal?utm_campaign=tedspread--a&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare
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Monday, January 22, 2018
Sunday, January 21, 2018
People like us: Kelly Clarkson
We come into this world unknown
But know that we are not alone
They try and knock us down
But change is coming, it's our time now
Hey... everybody loses it
Everybody wants to throw it all away sometimes
And hey... yeah I know what you're going through
Don't let it get the best of you, you'll make it out alive
Ohh
People like us we've gotta stick together
Keep your head up, nothing lasts forever
Here's to the damned, to the lost and forgotten
It's hard to get high when you're living on the bottom
Oh woah oh oh woah oh
We are all misfits living in a world on fire
Oh woah oh oh woah oh
Sing it for the people like us, the people like us
Hey, this is not a funeral
It's a revolution, after all your tears have turned to rage
Just wait, everything will be okay
Even when you're feeling like it's going down in flames
Ohh
People like us we've gotta stick together
Keep your head up nothing lasts forever
Here's to the damned, to the lost and forgotten
It's hard to get high when you're living on the bottom
Oh woah oh oh woah oh
We are all misfits living in a world on fire
Oh
Sing it for the people like us, the people like us
You've just gotta turn it up loud when the flames get higher
Oh
Sing it for the people like us, the people like us
They can't do nothing to you, they can't do nothing to me
This is the life that we choose, this is the life that we bleed
Saturday, January 20, 2018
Expose: Twilight Sleep
https://www.facebook.com/timelinenews/videos/2039691029387684/?hc_ref=ARQSRybHOW2kWDJZNbKOnlqtLSPvfxApU54jOkVintYM8uXw5phZ423dFYmXhNFeXSs&pnref=story
Friday, January 19, 2018
Thursday, January 18, 2018
You are what your thoughts are
BAYANGAN FIKIRAN BOLEH BERTUKAR MENJADI REALITI
Ini adalah konsep "Law of Attraction" yang telah dijelaskan oleh Rasulullah S.A.W.
Apa yang kita cakap, apa yang kita fikir, ia boleh benar-benar terjadi.
Suatu hari, Rasulullah SAW menjenguk seseorang yang sedang sakit demam. Beliau menghibur dan membesarkan hati orang tersebut.
Baginda bersabda :
"Semoga penyakitmu ini menjadi penghapus dosamu".
Orang itu menjawab :
"...tapi ini adalah demam yang mendidih, yang jika menimpa orang tua yang sudah renta, boleh menyeretnya ke lubang kubur."
Mendengar keluhan orang itu, Rasulullah SAW bersabda :
"Kalau demikian anggapanmu, maka akan begitulah jadinya."
(Hadis Riwayat Ibnu Majah)
Sungguh indah apa yang disabdakan Rasulullah SAW.
Perhatikan pesan-pesan Rasulullaah SAW berikut ini.
"Barangsiapa yang redha, maka keredhaan itu untuknya. Barangsiapa mengeluh, maka keluhan itu akan menjadi miliknya."
(Hadis Riwayat At-Tirmidzi)
"Salah satu kebahagiaan seseorang adalah keredhaannya menerima keputusan ALLAH."
(Hadis Riwayat Ahmad)
🔹Jika kita memikirkan bahagia, maka kita akan bahagia.
🔹Jika kita berfikiran sedih, maka kita menjadi sedih.
🔹Jika kita berfikiran gagal, kita menjadi gagal.
🔹Jika kita berfikiran sukses, maka kita nescaya sukses.
🔹Jika kita berfikiran sakit, kita juga menjadi sakit.
🔹Jika kita berfikiran sihat, maka kita pun akan sihat.
Inilah "The Law of Attraction"
Hukum Tarik Menarik, merupakan Sunnatullaah yang berlaku di alam semesta
You are what you think
Selalulah berfikir yang positif dan jangan pernah biarkan fikiran negatif membelenggu otak dan kehidupan kita.
Jadi tetap semangat dan jangan pernah menyerah pada keadaan.
Sedangkan selanjutnya itu Kuasa ALLAH SWT.
Nabi SAW bersabda :
"Ketika seorang hamba berkata, Laa Haula Wa Laa Quwwata Ila Billah, maka ALLAH berfirman, "Lihatlah (hai para malaikat), orang ini telah menyerahkan urusannya kepadaKu".
(Hadis Riwayat Ahmad).
Fikirkan yang baik-baik, berkata yang baik, Bertindaklah yang baik-baik, dan Insya'Allah yang datang juga yang baik-baik.
Semoga kita menjadi lebih baik dan lebih bermanfaat.
Robbana Taqobbal Minna
Ya Allah terimalah dari kami (amalan kami), Aamiin...
#UstazIqbalZain
Ini adalah konsep "Law of Attraction" yang telah dijelaskan oleh Rasulullah S.A.W.
Apa yang kita cakap, apa yang kita fikir, ia boleh benar-benar terjadi.
Suatu hari, Rasulullah SAW menjenguk seseorang yang sedang sakit demam. Beliau menghibur dan membesarkan hati orang tersebut.
Baginda bersabda :
"Semoga penyakitmu ini menjadi penghapus dosamu".
Orang itu menjawab :
"...tapi ini adalah demam yang mendidih, yang jika menimpa orang tua yang sudah renta, boleh menyeretnya ke lubang kubur."
Mendengar keluhan orang itu, Rasulullah SAW bersabda :
"Kalau demikian anggapanmu, maka akan begitulah jadinya."
(Hadis Riwayat Ibnu Majah)
Sungguh indah apa yang disabdakan Rasulullah SAW.
Perhatikan pesan-pesan Rasulullaah SAW berikut ini.
"Barangsiapa yang redha, maka keredhaan itu untuknya. Barangsiapa mengeluh, maka keluhan itu akan menjadi miliknya."
(Hadis Riwayat At-Tirmidzi)
"Salah satu kebahagiaan seseorang adalah keredhaannya menerima keputusan ALLAH."
(Hadis Riwayat Ahmad)
🔹Jika kita memikirkan bahagia, maka kita akan bahagia.
🔹Jika kita berfikiran sedih, maka kita menjadi sedih.
🔹Jika kita berfikiran gagal, kita menjadi gagal.
🔹Jika kita berfikiran sukses, maka kita nescaya sukses.
🔹Jika kita berfikiran sakit, kita juga menjadi sakit.
🔹Jika kita berfikiran sihat, maka kita pun akan sihat.
Inilah "The Law of Attraction"
Hukum Tarik Menarik, merupakan Sunnatullaah yang berlaku di alam semesta
You are what you think
Selalulah berfikir yang positif dan jangan pernah biarkan fikiran negatif membelenggu otak dan kehidupan kita.
Jadi tetap semangat dan jangan pernah menyerah pada keadaan.
Sedangkan selanjutnya itu Kuasa ALLAH SWT.
Nabi SAW bersabda :
"Ketika seorang hamba berkata, Laa Haula Wa Laa Quwwata Ila Billah, maka ALLAH berfirman, "Lihatlah (hai para malaikat), orang ini telah menyerahkan urusannya kepadaKu".
(Hadis Riwayat Ahmad).
Fikirkan yang baik-baik, berkata yang baik, Bertindaklah yang baik-baik, dan Insya'Allah yang datang juga yang baik-baik.
Semoga kita menjadi lebih baik dan lebih bermanfaat.
Robbana Taqobbal Minna
Ya Allah terimalah dari kami (amalan kami), Aamiin...
#UstazIqbalZain
Wednesday, January 17, 2018
Salt Dough Rose
https://www.clay-it-now.com/saltdoughrose.html
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QTOuHFPg0Jk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QTOuHFPg0Jk
Tuesday, January 16, 2018
Monday, January 15, 2018
cinnamon rolls with psyllium husk
https://www.wholesomeyum.com/recipes/healthy-cinnamon-rolls-paleo-low-carb-sugar-free/
Thursday, January 11, 2018
How to identify someone has a problem but projecting it on ME
http://outofthefog.website/traits
Top 100 traits and behaviors of personality-disordered individuals
Top 100 traits and behaviors of personality-disordered individuals
P untuk Polijini
Bab: P untuk Polijini
Orang Melayu terbiasa panggil Poligami.
Semalam ada seorang teman saya 'ahli kelab ada madu' (senyum) memberitahu saya, kakak kami telah menambah ahli keluarga. Saya terkejut.
Beberapa bulan lalu, teman baru bersama Lisa (bukan Muslim) bertanya pada saya, 'Bagaimana keadaan kamu dengan madu kamu? Seperti adik beradik?'
Mungkin sebulan lepas, saya berseloroh dengan madu saya, "Jangan bom saya ya...."
Dia jawab, "Saya akan cuba." Sambil senyum manis dan ikhlas.
P untuk Poligami.
Bersambung
I'd like to talk with you
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/book-party/wp/2015/10/01/the-book-that-will-have-everyone-talking-about-how-we-never-talk-anymore/?utm_term=.e3f0e1e976c6
Wednesday, January 10, 2018
Maaf; Forgive
Topic: Forgive
Forgive: Maafkan.
Nota: Memaafkan teman teman yang tidak tabayun, mahupun yang tidak sedar kesalahan mereka kerana tidak tabayun, yang tidak memenuhi hak hak ukhuwwah kerana kesempitan wang dan tidak memberi keutamaan atas hak hak ukhuwwah, dan tidak meminta maaf, dan lain lain kesalahan seperti ini.
Kerana saya manusia, saya mahu kita semua yang manusia masuk syurga.
Saya tidak rugi atau untung apa-apa jika manusia lain masuk neraka melainkan:
Syaitan dan iblis gembira bila manusia ikut sekali masuk neraka.
Saya mesti bertindak berlawanan dari syaitan dan iblis.
Jadi saya suka manusia masuk syurga: termasuklah mereka yang menyakiti saya.
What do I get by asking for Jahannam for them?
I ask Allah to open their hearts TO SEE THE TRUTH, to repent with taubat nasuha and be entered into Jannah.
Allahuma arinal haqqa haqqan warzuqnattibaa',
Wa arinal bathila BATHILAN, WARZUQNAJTINABA.
Wa arinal bathila BATHILAN, WARZUQNAJTINABA.
Ameen!
I change the world by changing myself
Note: I change the world by changing myself :D
Your personal healing and re-connection to the heart of life, by way of the feminine, affects the whole and supports our collective evolution.
Link:
https://womboflight.com/about-the-mother-wound
Adab
Topic: Adab
Disclaimer: Ofcourse I am not the best example of adab, (Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wasalam is).
I've lost my cool on social media many times. Yes, hence I deleted my old profile to do justice to those I might have "slandered" on social media in the past, though, unbeknownst to me, I was and continue to be, slandered off-line.
And.
And I choose to be "friends somewhat" to "both sides".
Both sides: The medical profession and the Childbirth Educators.
Note: Yes, please share this post.
In around 2014 before I went on my musafir trip, I sat with several friends who were from the medical line as well as those who were childbirth educators, to discuss the media slander as well as other attacks on Amani Birth.
My concise conclusion:
There is an enormous loss of adab and patience.
I was sent screen shots / print-screens of what was being said about the Amani Birth Book, by those, in real life whom I would look up to and respect as medical professionals.
Yes, as someone who has been with local advocates for gentle birthing, I still respect, and subscribe to allopathy as and when it is necessary.
But to read both sides slandering each other with words such as "doula douli cikebum", "sheeple" and all kinds of 'sufla' words meant to belittle people:
States only one statement to me the human being:
We are human, we need to make istighfar and increase our adab and sabr.
The end.
From your sister, friend, and Amani Birth Trainee and Advocate,
Amirah Mokhtar.
Amirah Mokhtar.
Muslim parents: Stop oppressing your child
- Hitting is not the way of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him).
- Shouting is not the way of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him).
- Condemning is not the way of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him).
- Hurtful sarcasm is not the way of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him).
- Using harsh words or negative terms like stupid, naughty, clumsy, useless is definitely not the way of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him).
Rather,
- Positive words of encouragement is the way of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him).
- Hugging and dhikr is the way of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him).
- Speaking with a soft voice and carrying a smiling face is the way of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him).
- Reminding, reminding, reminding, is the way of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him).
- Calling others with good positive names is the way of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him).
- MERCY and FORGIVENESS and PARDONING is definitely the way of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him).
Excerpt from:
http://muslimcouncil.org.hk/stop-oppressing-your-child-says-a-concerned-muslim-parent/
Liberating ourselves from another person's wound
As we heal the mother wound, the power dynamic is increasingly resolved because women are no longer asking one another to stay small to ease their own pain.
Excerpt taken from:
https://womboflight.com/about-the-mother-wound
Note:
Break free from shackles which are not your own; empathy is one thing - do not absorb another person's wound to the extent of limiting YOURSELF to what will be pleasing to THEM.
Excerpt taken from:
https://womboflight.com/about-the-mother-wound
Note:
Break free from shackles which are not your own; empathy is one thing - do not absorb another person's wound to the extent of limiting YOURSELF to what will be pleasing to THEM.
Excerpt on Mother Wound
The stereotype of “All mothers should be loving all the time” strips women of their full humanity. Because women are not given permission to be full human beings, society feels justified in not providing full respect, support and resources to mothers.
The truth is that mothers are human beings and all mothers having un-loving moments. And it’s true that there are mothers who are simply un-loving most of the time, whether because of addiction, mental illness or other struggles. Until we are willing to face these uncomfortable realities the mother wound will be in shadow and continue to be passed through the generations.
We all have patriarchy in us to some degree. We’ve had to ingest it to survive in this culture. When we’re ready to confront it fully in ourselves, we also confront it in others, including our mothers. This can be one of the most heart-wrenching of all situations we must face. But unless we are willing to go there, to address the mother wound, we are paying a very high price for the illusion of peace and empowerment.
Excerpt from:
https://womboflight.com/about-the-mother-wound
Note: Again, it is not exclusive to the mother-daughter relationsip
Mother Wound Excerpt
As a woman, there is a vague but powerful sense that your empowerment will injure your relationships. And women are taught to value relationships over everything else. We cling to the crumbs of our relationships, while our souls may be deeply longing for the fulfillment of our potential. But the truth is that our relationships alone can never adequately substitute for the hunger to live our lives fully.
Excerpt from:
https://womboflight.com/about-the-mother-wound
Excerpt from:
https://womboflight.com/about-the-mother-wound
Mother Wound: It is simply a wound
Most daughters choose to be loved instead of empowered because there is an ominous sense that being fully actualized and empowered may cause a grave loss of love from important people in their lives, specifically their mothers. So women stay small and un-fulfilled, unconsciously passing the mother wound to the next generation.
excerpt from:
https://womboflight.com/about-the-mother-wound
My take: It is unnecessary that it is exclusive from the mother; it can be from any member of the family.
Monday, January 8, 2018
Self-Actualization: You are capable of Good
You are capable of good and doing good and being good.
There is no need to be envious of other people being or doing good, because everyone is capable of the same capacity of good.
There is no need to be envious of other people being or doing good, because everyone is capable of the same capacity of good.
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| For source, please refer to previous post on Self Actualization |
67: 22
أَفَمَن يَمْشِي مُكِبًّا عَلَىٰ وَجْهِهِ أَهْدَىٰ أَمَّن يَمْشِي سَوِيًّا عَلَىٰ صِرَاطٍ مُّسْتَقِيمٍ - 67:22
SAHIH INTERNATIONAL
Then is one who walks fallen on his face better guided or one who walks erect on a straight path?
67: 20
أَمَّنْ هَٰذَا الَّذِي هُوَ جُندٌ لَّكُمْ يَنصُرُكُم مِّن دُونِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ ۚ إِنِ الْكَافِرُونَ إِلَّا فِي غُرُورٍ - 67:20
SAHIH INTERNATIONAL
Or who is it that could be an army for you to aid you other than the Most Merciful? The disbelievers are not but in delusion.
67: 16
أَأَمِنتُم مَّن فِي السَّمَاءِ أَن يَخْسِفَ بِكُمُ الْأَرْضَ فَإِذَا هِيَ تَمُورُ - 67:16
SAHIH INTERNATIONAL
Do you feel secure that He who [holds authority] in the heaven would not cause the earth to swallow you and suddenly it would sway?
If you're not one of us, you're one of them
Those in 'prison of their minds' (and desires):
"Their minds are not ready to be woken up, they will fight for the reality (or desire) they are trapped in."
"Their minds are not ready to be woken up, they will fight for the reality (or desire) they are trapped in."
Self-actualization
Bismillah
Self-actualization.
Apakah erti self-actualization untuk anda?
Self-actualization.
Apakah erti self-actualization untuk anda?
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| source: https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html |
Sunday, January 7, 2018
Friday, January 5, 2018
The Gift of Death
The Gift of Death: Pathological consumption has become so normalised that we scarcely notice it. By George Monbiot, published in the Guardian 11th December 2012 There’s nothing they need, nothing they don’t own already, …
excerpt:
Bake them a cake, write them a poem, give them a kiss, tell them a joke, but for god’s sake stop trashing the planet to tell someone you care. All it shows is that you don’t.
excerpt:
Bake them a cake, write them a poem, give them a kiss, tell them a joke, but for god’s sake stop trashing the planet to tell someone you care. All it shows is that you don’t.
The Gift of Death 2
The Gift of Death: Pathological consumption has become so normalised that we scarcely notice it. By George Monbiot, published in the Guardian 11th December 2012 There’s nothing they need, nothing they don’t own already, …
excerpt:
The fatuity of the products is matched by the profundity of the impacts. Rare materials, complex electronics, the energy needed for manufacture and transport are extracted and refined and combined into compounds of utter pointlessness. When you take account of the fossil fuels whose use we commission in other countries, manufacturing and consumption are responsible for more than half of our carbon dioxide production(2). We are screwing the planet to make solar-powered bath thermometers and desktop crazy golfers.
excerpt:
The fatuity of the products is matched by the profundity of the impacts. Rare materials, complex electronics, the energy needed for manufacture and transport are extracted and refined and combined into compounds of utter pointlessness. When you take account of the fossil fuels whose use we commission in other countries, manufacturing and consumption are responsible for more than half of our carbon dioxide production(2). We are screwing the planet to make solar-powered bath thermometers and desktop crazy golfers.
The Gift of Death
The Gift of Death: Pathological consumption has become so normalised that we scarcely notice it. By George Monbiot, published in the Guardian 11th December 2012 There’s nothing they need, nothing they don’t own already, …
Excerpt:
Excerpt:
So you buy them a solar-powered waving queen; a belly button brush; a silver-plated ice cream tub holder; a “hilarious” inflatable zimmer frame; a confection of plastic and electronics called Terry the Swearing Turtle; or – and somehow I find this significant – a Scratch Off World wall map.
They seem amusing on the first day of Christmas, daft on the second, embarrassing on the third. By the twelfth they’re in landfill. For thirty seconds of dubious entertainment, or a hedonic stimulus that lasts no longer than a nicotine hit, we commission the use of materials whose impacts will ramify for generations.
Thursday, January 4, 2018
Wednesday, January 3, 2018
Jangan 'Mope', buatlah
Curhat:
Jangan lah iri hati kalau diri sendiri sekadar nak iri hati saja.
Apa kata terasa sebutir iri hati tetapi bertindak membaiki diri?
Baru lah maju ke hadapan.
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